the definition of a healthy lifestyle is not working out all the time, eating fruits and vegetables and lifting.
a healthy lifestyle is doing whatever you like, smiling, inner peace, eating whatever you like and whatever is good for your body and your soul, loving, being happy, laughing with the ones you love, feeling comfortable with your body and being positive. enjoy being alive.
EVER has a right to touch you if you don’t want to be touched.
Not your husband. Not your fiance. Not your boyfriend. Not your partner. Not your friends. Not even your own family.
You are a person and your body is your own. And it’s a privilege if you allow someone to touch it.
A god damn privilege that can be snatched up and you don’t owe anyone a reason but that it’s your body and only YOUR body.
But what I’m not pissed at, is the fact I seem to have learnt to stick up for myself. What I’m not pissed at, is that I think that I am valid enough not to put myself down for other people anymore.
But I’m terribly sad that I’ve pissed off my best friend, and I’m even sadder that she can’t believe what I say is true and that I need to be convinced of the truth.
I matter, like I never have before, and I won’t just go back to the way I was.